These men and the games they play.
I went on a few dates with someone new during these past couple weeks. He had potential but I guess he didn't think the same of me.
During one of our discussions, he mentioned two of his exes. He referred to them as "husband-quality" (and implied I was too). But he said neither of them was willing to wait for him to let his walls down and they eventually moved on.
This was the first time I've heard a gay man use that term. Husband-quality.
How ironic that I never really heard from him since.
Will I ever find someone who is "husband-quality"?
I've met very few, if any, gay men interested in getting married let alone wanting children.
It saddens me that I may never get married and have a family of my own one day.
I have not given up hope just yet but don't expect much from the gay community anymore either.
In the meantime, I'll continue searching for "husband-quality".